‘I was
depressed in those first weeks. it was shitty cold’. With his savings gone on
rent and student fees, he was forced to ring his father in India to ask
for help. ‘You chose to go. If you need anything, don’t call me.’ ‘My
mother was sobbing’. His Irish dreams were quickly slipping away. An
older compatriot he met at an Indian festival soon after gave advice that
shifted his focus. ‘Stay away from any helping community. Grow your own
space. You have to be local to be local’.
Finding
work in an Indian restaurant in Swords, Kunal’s initial role was preparing meat
and chopping onions. ‘In my life, I thought I would never touch beef.
It’s against my religion’. Throughout those difficult months his last
call home hung heavy in his head. Driven by the inescapable motivation of
a father’s expectation, he was pushed to succeed. ‘Either you fail or you
learn’.
In spite of the fact Indian immigrants consistently rate in the top global percentiles for educational achievement and earning capacity, outdated perceptions persist. Dismissing these antiquated stereotypes with humour Kunal joked ‘people still see us as the land of snake charmers’. Defensiveness seems entirely absent from his character. ‘When someone undermines you, you laugh at yourself, or you laugh at them. A billion Indians can’t produce 11 good footballers but we give you doctors’. Confidently pointing out that Ireland’s richest man is Indian, it appears he aims to emulate his countryman’s successes.
Turning
adversity to one’s advantage seems to underpin Kunal’s self-belief. ‘Only a
person that can think bad of you can tell you how good or bad you are’.
With a grounded wisdom in his approach to prejudice, he perceives the
initial coldness of locals as a forgivable fear of difference. ‘In the
first month nobody would talk to me’. Whilst never ignoring the challenge
of being the ‘other’, he simply refused to dwell on it. ‘You have to be
successful in your own eyes.’ This nuanced philosophy affords him an
inspiring confidence in the underlying decency of others. ‘People open up
when you’re good to them’.
Offered a role in the finance department of Hays Recruitment, Kunal undertook his next challenge with
zeal. Quickly recognising his commitment and hard work, the firm cut his probationary period short. He achieved a permanent position as a payroll specialist in 2019. With his studies completed, his family travelled to Dublin for his graduation ceremony. ‘My father was whistling in the auditorium. I had tears rolling out of my eyes. That’s my father and he’s rooting for me’.
The values of Integrity and diligence rate highly in Kunal’s estimations. Being seen as a good example for the next person is an honour worth more than money. ‘Indians are proud people’. He embodies the heart of the immigrant story; fighting for a rung and hauling yourself upward. Of 64 immigrants in his class, only nine remain in Ireland. With his new foundations growing ever more stable, he gets to offer a hand up the ladder for others, altruistically finding jobs and giving support. He has allowed adversity to hone his strength. ‘People used to think I wasn’t good enough’.
With a contagious optimistic smile he adds, ‘I like when people challenge me’.
Listen to Kunal explain his story on the We Are The People podcast.
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