Sunday 29 December 2019

Edward - The boy to bring peace


With everything that happens in the world, you’d be forgiven for thinking we live in an evil race to the bottom. Sickness, death, tragedy, misfortune… it surrounds us, with the potential to consume us.

Bad news sells and corrupts our view of the world.

There is plenty of cruelty in the world but come with me on a trip that starts with an innocuous encounter and ends with one of my favourite moments ever.

I was cycling home from work when a car ahead of me slowed to let me pass before turning left in my wake. I waved my appreciation and smiled at their simple yet caring move.

My mind then wandered back to Sicily in the summer of 2008. I was looking after children, mainly French and Italians. Most weeks I was charged with the 4-5-year olds. It was an endless cycle of feeding, cleaning and trying to understand what could possibly upset a French child so much that hyperventilating became an all too common occurrence? My awful French accent probably didn’t help.

This routine was finally broken as a new week began and respite came in the form of a transfer to work with the 8-12-year olds.

“Can you look after my son this week?” asked a rather anxious English mother.

“If he is between the ages of 8 and 12, I don’t see why not.” I replied

“Your boss won’t take him, she said no.”

“Eh, well… why not?” My confusion almost matching her level of distress.

“Edward has autism, but he is fine. If anyone could bring about world peace he will. He loves to hug; he just wants to make friends. But he can’t talk. He will be fine, I promise. His sister will be there too, she knows what to do…” She said, almost without a breath.

I was stunned. I opened my mouth to reply but was interrupted by the sound of barking, loud and full of life.

I looked around to see who had brought their dog on holidays and was met, not by a canine but, by a fair-haired boy, with cherub cheeks and a pristine smile.

Nothing out of the ordinary here, except he was holding a toy dinosaur in each hand and he was making them bark like nothing I had ever heard... from a human!

“He will be fine, I promise.” His mother’s desperation dripping from every word. Edward was oblivious as children scuttled to “safety”.

“Non!” my boss was adamant, “We cannot. It will be too difficult”

“Please, he will be no trouble and his sister will be there too if anything happens.” His mother argued.

This went back and forth until amazingly I was given the casting vote.

“Yes, let’s take him. His sister will be there sure…”

“Thank you!” The relief on the mother's face was all too clear as her features softened.

“OK, but if anything happens, it is your fault.” My boss was clear, I was on my own!

No matter the country, the continent or situation, kids will be kids… searching comfort and scared of the unknown. Edward joined the group with a smile on his face and dinosaurs in hand but everywhere he went the other kids moved away and giggled behind his back.

Every activity we took on it was the same, Edward playing on his own because the other kids didn’t understand… Then we went to play football.

The resort had a glass structure similar in size to a squash court with small goals at either end. It was perfect for two a side. Myself and 14 kids headed off to play… now someone had to play on Edward’s team.

We settled on teams of two, the first to score two goals won the match and the winner stayed on.

The action kicked off with four on the inside battling it out for the glory of their peers, who were outside banging the glass and cheering every touch. Edward was no different, loving life, his life.

When Edward’s turn on court came, he chased around, worked up a sweat and ultimately left on the losing team. The kids on the outside did little to hide their laughter. It was time to have a little chat.

The next time Edward was on court and out of earshot, I gathered the other boys around and did my best to explain Edward’s outlook on the world… in French.

I jumbled together something akin to “Edward is a kid like you guys. He loves to make friends and have fun. Unfortunately, the world isn’t as easy for Edward so he needs us to look out for him. I need you to help him.” The giggles were gone and what looked like genuine concern seemed to have taken its place.

I continued, “Let’s make things better for Edward. The next time his team are playing I want you to allow him to win. You can score the first goal against him if you want but please just let his team have one victory.” The togetherness with which they laughed at him had now been replaced with scheming an unlikely victory for him.

As my impromptu speech came to an end, Edward’s team left the court defeated once again, not realising my pidgin French may have been about to create something very special.

The games continued until it was time for Edward’s team to take to the field once more. It was different from the beginning. The boys outside banged the glass and shouted his name. His face lit up; he was still beaming from ear to ear as a shot flew past him to put his side 1-0 down.

“Never get too high with the highs or too low with the lows”, they say. Edward epitomised this and kept smiling as the crowd chanted his name.

Within minutes Edward’s team were back on level terms as his teammate took out his frustration on the ball and it nestled in the corner of the net. Edward went wild, chasing after the young lad to celebrate. His face was bright red, his teeth glowing as he laughed and smiled at their unlikely turn of events.

The game was on a knife edge. If Edward’s team conceded the cruelty in the world would be there for all to see… if he scored, we could continue to believe in the good in people.

Chances came and went. Edward, forever distracted by his newfound fame, was having a hard time concentrating on the task at hand and we were in danger of having to call the game a draw. There was no drop of the shoulder required to go past Edward, he was enchanted by the sound of his name and gravitated towards his fans.

Then it happened, truth be told I can’t remember how but the ball ended up in the back of the opposition net and Edward’s boot was the last to touch it. He had scored a goal, won his team the game and created scenes never to be repeated in a glass box.

His teammate ran to him and hugged him as he jumped in the air, the boys outside banged on the glass and shouted his name. He left the court and was mobbed by all the kids… “bien jouĂ©!”, “Quel but!”, the boys had done good.

Edward was on cloud nine as he savoured his moment. The boys milked it for all it was worth, reveling in their planning and execution.

As the week went by the kids remembered Edward, saying hello in the morning, including him in their games and running after him when he wandered off.

And I remember it 11 years later as an example of the power of concentrating on the positives. It doesn’t make the pain of illness, death and loss go away but if it brings a smile to your face for a moment, and makes you think of your own happy memories, then I'll take it.


Tuesday 4 June 2019

Booking the trend

Her sense of adventure drove her Ford, Focus was not her strong point. It often drove her to Distraction, the packed arcade she hated. Realising her errant journey, she slapped her face hard. "Girl, that Mustang!", muttered a passerby. 

It snapped her back to reality and off she went. Leaving civilisation behind, she headed for a place long forgotten but with many stories. She abandoned her car and walked the rest of the way. 

Moving between the reads her eyes scanned the fallen trees, beaten to a pulp. They danced across the tall tails huddled in this most ordered of worlds. Then she saw it, a young buck, the one she came to see. She reached out and grabbed its spine, it lay in her hands as she gazed upon her trophy.

She brought it to be checked, out in the open, away from the shelter of the columns of scribes. It was her first time and a bead of sweat crashed to the floor. She instantly regretted wearing her most prised possession. She’d torn her grandmother’s sweat infused pearl necklace from her dying grasp and worn it as her own.

The pearls scuttled along the floor, past the sections marked “Wild” and “Winter” and came to a halt, atop a fallen sign, “Wisdom”. 

She collected her pearls off "Wisdom" and her aquatic marine mammal. She walked with real porpoise towards the bespectacled gentleman to make his mark.

“ISBN expecting you”, his strong Italian accent caught her by surprise.
She stood in silence, not sure how to respond.
“Check you out!”, his gaze dropping below her face.
She stood in silence, not sure how to respond.
“Your book, Ma’am.”

She placed it on the desk and within seconds his scan was complete.

She reached for her new Tennant, Emma smiled at the man. He held on a little too long and whispered “If it’s late, it’s a fine”.

"GRAZIE!" 

“What a nice man, a little odd” she thought, “wait, ‘it’s a fine’?”

Sunday 28 April 2019

Pixie & Pals

“GET AWAY FROM THE ROSES!”, the gruff voice startled Pixie so she fled for cover among the trees. Terrified, she scampered up the bark to the safety of branches. Catching her breath, she peered down as Mr. Jones shouted, “You’re a nuisance squirrel, a right nuisance!”.



Pixie smiled to herself and wondered if Mr. Jones was always this angry. Did he wake up and think his milk was too milky, his water too watery and squirrels too squirrely? He needs to wake up and smell the roses? That’s all Pixie wanted to do, she loved starting her day among the beautiful colours and delightful smells.

Once Mr. Jones had become distracted with the boys and girls playing too close to the daffodils, Pixie skipped down the tree trunk and off across the green grass to find her friends. The grass was still wet with the morning dew, so she picked up her pace. She sprinted towards the pond and slid on her bum along the wet grass.

“WHEEEEEEE!” she shouted.

“PIXIE!”, three yellow ducklings cheered as they saw their favourite squirrel arrive on the path beside the pond.

“Hi guys!”, shouted Pixie as the ducklings splashed and crashed towards her, eager to be the first to hop onto her bushy tail.

“One at a time guys. Polly, you first.”

Polly danced as she realised she could jump on before her brothers. Pixie lay her tail on the ground and Polly crawled on, excited for what was to come.

“1,2... THREE!” Pixie swished her tail forward with all her might. Polly flew through the air, she flapped her little wings and soared higher than she had ever been. She could see over the park wall, out across the train track and over the waves in the sea.

Seconds later she landed face first into the pond, the cold water made her shiver but she smiled with delight after another Pixie catapult.

“AGAIN!” she shouted, as her brothers landed in the water beside her.

“Ducklings, I need your help. Mr. Jones is always angry, I think he needs to smell the roses. They are just so beautiful, it might help him relax. Wouldn’t it be great if he was our friend?” said Pixie.

“We love friends!”, the ducklings shouted, “We’re in!”

Pixie was excited and explained her plan.

“Tomorrow morning, before the park opens, we’ll meet at the bandstand. Percy, Polly and Patrick, you can’t be late. Once you hear the first train along the tracks, that’s our signal that we have to meet.”

“Ok, Pixie, but what do we do then?”, Percy asked.

“I’ll catch Mr. Jones’ attention and make him chase me to the roses. I’ll hide among them so he can’t see me. This is where I need your help.”, said Pixie.

“Great, this is exciting!” Patrick shouted.

“When I am between the roses, Mr. Jones will bend down looking for me. He will use his eyes to search for me, his ears to listen for me... and the silly man might just try and smell for me too.”

“You don’t smell Pixie!” said Polly.

“I know, this is when we will get him to smell the roses. When the wind blows their smell is stronger, I think it is because the roses are dancing and they want everyone to know how wonderful their scent is. We need to make the roses move.”

“Are you going to make wind, Pixie?” Percy giggled.

“No, that would be very difficult. You guys are going to move the roses. I’ll hide between them, Mr. Jones will be down looking for me and you guys will pull one rose to one side and then let it go. Once it swings up it will send all the lovely smells towards Mr. Jones and he will see how beautiful the roses smell, he will definitely relax and then thank us for helping him. We’ll have a new friend.”

“THAT’S A GREAT IDEA PIXIE!” screamed the ducklings.

“Thanks guys. Now, let’s get some rest, and remember, when the first train passes in the morning we must head to the bandstand.”

The next morning, Pixie’s ears picked up a rumbling sound in the distance, the train chugged into Blackrock station and the screeching of the brakes told her it was time to put her plan in place.

Pixie quietly left her sleeping parents in their burrow and headed for the bandstand. As she got closer she could see three tiny yellow shapes shivering on the steps. Her friends were ready.

“Morning guys!”

“Morning Pixie!”

“Are we all set? Do you know what to do?”

“Yes, we have picked the best rose and we know our muscles are ready.” The ducklings flapped their wings to show their strength.

“Great! Let’s go.”, Pixie gave the order.

The ducklings waddled off across the path towards the bed of roses. They wiggled their way in between the thorns and found their place beside their favourite rose.

“Let’s practice before Mr. Jones comes so we can get this right.” said Patrick. The ducklings agreed and decided to make a duck tower so that they could reach the petals of the rose.

Patrick crouched down and Percy hopped on his back, then Polly climbed on top of Patrick too before jumping on top of Percy. Their tower was ready. Polly’s wings reached out and pulled the rose a little, it swayed nicely letting out the lovely smell they needed.

While the ducklings practiced their plan, Pixie ran up the hill to the main gate and hid among the leaves.

It wasn’t long before Mr. Jones appeared at the gate. He took out his big metal key and stuck it in the lock. With a clatter he opened the huge gate, shoved his key into his pocket and growled at the little bird singing in the tree.

“Don’t worry Mr. Jones, we’ll make you smile.” Pixie whispered.

Mr. Jones walked to the little black and white house just inside the park. He opened the door and put on the kettle for a cup of tea. Pixie stood watching at the open door.

“WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE, SQUIRREL?!” Mr. Jones shouted.

Pixie didn’t move, she just grinned. This made Mr. Jones mad, he moved towards her and swung his big boot. Pixie was too quick, she jumped between his legs and pulled one of his shoelaces with her teeth.

Mr. Jones bent down to grab her, but cheeky Pixie jumped up and gave him a kiss on the nose instead. This made Mr. Jones furious. He chased Pixie out the door, his big boots thundering after her as she lead him down the winding path.

Pixie slowed down so that Mr. Jones could stay close and not give up. He grumbled and muttered and shouted at her but Pixie stayed ahead. Pixie lead Mr. Jones down into the open space where the bandstand was. She looked to her left and saw her friends among the roses.

The ducklings were getting scared now. Mr. Jones was getting closer to Pixie, he was running as fast as he could, bending down at the same time with his hands out wide to try and catch her.

Poor Pixie was getting slower as she moved towards the roses.

“I will eat you once I catch you squirrel!”, Mr. Jones roared.

“QUICK PIXIE, QUICK!”, the duckling tower was beginning to shake.

“Get ready guys, I’m coming!” Pixie shouted.

Pixie bounded into the rose bed and scuttled between the stalks before she found a nice hiding place.

“GET AWAY FROM THE ROSES!” roared Mr. Jones.

He bent down looking for Pixie, he looked left, he looked right. His eyes scanned the rose bed and his ears listened for any sign of brave Pixie.

“NOW!”, Percy gave the order and little Polly graabbed the rose. She moved the rose slowly backwards before letting it go and it popped quickly forward, just like they had planned.

“UH OH!” Pixie knew something was wrong straight away.
Poor Polly was now flying through the air. The thorn on the rose had caught her little wing and threw her forward.

She was heading straight for Mr. Jones’ nose.

Pixie and her friends looked on helplessly as Polly smashed into his big, squidgy nose.

Pixie raced in to save Polly as she dropped from his face, catching her with her tail.

Mr. Jones grabbed his flattened nose, “MY NOSE! OWWWWWW!” squealed the huge man like a big baby.

He looked towards the pond and saw Pixie bounding through the grass with three ducklings hanging onto her tail.

“That was fun!” Pixie shouted as she used her tail to fling the ducklings back into the water.

Percy, Polly and Patrick landed in the water with a splash. The four friends sat on the edge of the pond and laughed about their morning adventure.

“Is he our friend now?”, Percy asked.

They all laughed.

“Not yet”, said Pixie “we will need another plan!”